Calling Card Holders
Calling Card Holders
Fans
Fans
Of Propriety of Deportment, and its Advantages
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3 Pair Stocking Set
Ladies light weight stockings 80% cotton 20% spandex embroidered knee high stockings with comfort band. No garter bands needed. Spandex added so you don't have to deal with garters "tourniquet" cutting off our circulation.
Set of 3 - White Embroidered, Solid White and Solid Black Pair.
One size fits most
4oz. Hip Flask
Scroll Decorated 4oz. Hip Flask. Stainless Steel flask with funnel - ready to be engraved.
Amathyst stone on hanging shield
Black on Black with tassels and fringe
Black Silk Shawl with Multicolored Roses
Black silk shawl with rich mulitcolored roses of velvet.
Corset
This is the most comfortable corset on the market!
Day Dress Gallery
More Day Dresses we have created
Day Dress I Day Dress 1
Day Dress III
Day Dress III
Day Dress IV
Day Dress IV
Day Dress V
Day Dress V
Decorative Metal Calling Card Holder
Plated Calling Card Holder - Available in Gold and Nickle Plated.
Gallery of Hats
A Gallery of Examples
Handkerchiefs
Handkerchiefs
Set of 3 Beautifully Embroidered 100% Cotton ladies handkerchiefs in a Matching Drawstring Bag.
Hoop Slip
Versatile Nine Bone Hoop Slip
Lace Ball Gown
Elegant Lace Ball Gown
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Large Sandalwood Fan
Sandalwood Fan with wonderful printed scene and great aroma!
Long Hooded Cape
Long Hooded Cape
Of Propriety of Deportment, and its Advantages Mary and I have had a 35 year friendship and passion for the American Civil War. We have traveled coast to coast visiting museums, old grave yards, historical homes, and have read what ever we could find on the life of women’s decorum before and during the war. The hardships, I believe, can never be surpassed; but I also believe that the war was more than “blood and mud”. No matter the station, rich or poor, North or South, women practiced and taught the rules of politeness, style and grace, which is more beautiful than beauty itself. With this being said, Mary and I have decided to attempt to contribute to our organization portals of “Women of Means” inspired by actual family members, Rebecca Sue Elliott and Mary Elizabeth Elliott from Elliott County, Kentucky. We hope that in some small way, we can teach the public that even during the darkest times of our history, women insisted on practicing the art of being ladies. I hope to write future articles on the subject of what was expected of women’s decorum under the heading “in the Presence of a Lady” depicting the rules of society from street manners to dressing for the occasion. Judy Bauer and Mary Felder
Propriety of deportment is a happy union of moral and the graceful; it should be considered in two points of view, and ought therefore to direct us in our important duties as well as our trifling enjoyments. When we regard it only under this aspect, some contend that mere intercourse with the world gives a habit and taste for those modest and obliging observances which constitute true politeness; but this is an error. Propriety of deportment is a valuable results of a knowledge of one’s self, and of respect for the rights of others, it is a feeling of sacrifices which are imposed on self-esteem by our social relations; it is, in short, a sacred requirement of harmony and affection. But the usage of the world is merely the gloss, of rather imitation of propriety, since instead of being like that, based upon sincerity, modesty and courtesy, it consist, in not being constant in an thing, and in amusing itself by playing off its feeling and ridicule, against the defects and excellence of others, provided it is done with grace and never carried so far as to wound the self-esteem of any one.
Silk Ball Gown
Silk Ball Gown
Silk Ball Gown II
Silk Ball Gown II
Silk Dragon Shawl Sheer silk shawl with dragon motif in black velvet. Long tassles.
Available in Black or Red
Silk Fans
Silk Fans
Silk Shawl with Floral Designs
Silk Shawl with Floral Designs. Sheer black silk with mulitcolor velvet flowers. Has a red long-tassled fringe.
Silk Shawl with Velvet Floral Pattern
Sheer silk shawl with rich velvet floral design and fringe. Available in Black with Red and Green or Black with Red and Gold Flowers.
Silk Shawl with Velvet Roses Elegant fine silk shawl with a rich velvet pattern of roses. Long tassles completes the very feminine design. Available in Black or Black with Red Roses with a glint of Gold
Small Sandalwood Fan
Small Sandalwood Fan
Vintage Photo Gallery
Original Photos (CDVs) of Women of the Civil War
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